If you don't know where you are going,
you'll end up some place else.
Yogi Berra
How to make "Self-Improvement" Work Every Time!
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by Bob Doyle
There is an inherent problem with the approach most people take to self-improvement
of any kind. There is a
presupposition that there is something wrong that needs fixing. Perhaps
it is true that there are areas in their lives that they wish to change.
However, the mindset with which they approach transformation will very
often NEGATE any positive results they might have. Why? Because all of
their focus is on the PROBLEM they are trying to solve, rather than their
vision for what their life will be like on without the alleged problem.
There is a very basic physical natural law which ultimately determines ANY success on ANY level. This law dictates exactly what our experience will be from moment to moment. Best of all, this law is fully under our control at all times, even if we are not aware of it.
This "law" is the Law of Attraction. Most of the time, you hear about this law in terms of how it will help you to attract wealth or abundance in general. However, the Law of Attraction transcends just those basic desires. The Law of Attraction dictates that you will receive back exactly what you "vibrate"...that is, what you are FEELING. Where is your attention? Is it on the feelings associated with the problem, or with the feelings of no longer having the problem?
If you approach self-improvement material with the desire to "get rid of the problem", and if all your feelings are on how terrible or frustrating this "problem" is, Universal Law dictates that you will simply attract MORE of those feelings...more of the circumstances that brought the problem to you in the first place. The Universe isn’t "out to get you". It is simply responding to the "request" that you are putting out by way of your feelings.
If, however, you approach your self-improvement solutions with high positive feelings associated with what your life WILL be...if you visualize your success with your program of choice on all sensory levels, particularly on the level of EMOTION, you will literally magnetically ATTRACT the success you are looking for! Miracles will occur!
While this may sound very "mystic" or even preposterous, I
submit to you that EVERY aspect of your life right now has
been brought to you in perfect response to your prevailing thoughts and
beliefs which directly effect your emotional state, which in turn causes
you to emit very specific and magnetic frequencies which attract like
frequencies.
We must never forget that beyond simply being flesh and bone, we are,
at a molecular level, ENERGY. And our personal
energy obeys the same physical laws as all other Energy which we study
more traditionally.
The wealthiest, most successful people in the world use the Law of Attraction
(albeit often unconsciously) to
effortlessly bring into their lives whatever they envision. This could
be wealth, successful businesses, or satisfying
relationships. Or, it could simply be wisdom, peace of mind, and a sense
of purpose.
The big secret is that you truly CAN have whatever you want, regardless
of how "pie-in-the-sky" this may sound. You need
only learn a few key concepts about HOW to ask for what you want to begin
receiving it in abundance! Despite what you
may currently believe or have been taught, it is not the purpose of our
lives to struggle, to work hard for years, or try to "figure things
out". Our job is to do what we love to do. When we do that with full
trust and knowing that doing so will naturally attract our deepest desires,
we become powerful magnets, which absolutely assures our success.
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